Trust?
I'm fed up of all the unworthy people who manage to become so called 'friends' and end up backstabbing me. I know that trust has to be earned but after this stuff with Emma and I've come to the point where I think when is the time that you can really trust someone? There was another example at work today. A so called mate and collegue told me that one day when I was at work, Emma went round to his house (without an invite) and ended up staying several hours and giving him a massage and coming onto him. We had discussed things about what she said a few days before she went round and he didnt mention this which could have prevented a lot from happening...me loosing so much money for one. This guy calls me his 'best mate'.......BULLSHIT. He's no friend of mine anymore. What do you all think about trust?
HelenMD Moderator
Posts: 131
(5/11/03 1:13 am) Reply
trust
I could count on one hand the amount of people I trust and still have room left over. But I am a control freak so ultimately the only person I FULLY trust is myself. It is not something I give out easily. Anyone I trust is either related to me or I have known them for more than five years.
Andy, Emma was quite an exceptional case from the sound of things. That girl has issues (as they say on Jenny Jones, Ricki Lake etc.). It won't be long before you see her on Jerry Springer.
Re: trust
Trust is an interesting concept when applied to satanists. If you think about it in a religion where everyone celebrates their own ego it is extremely difficult to assign trust. With everyone out for themselves you know that some of them will stab you in the back if ever the situation called for it.
Thankfully thats if you take satanism at its face value and you have to remember that everyone is different. Whats great about satanism is at least you know everyone is out for themselves and you don't have all the BS vales you'll find elsewhere.
Having said all that there are those that can afford my trust and equally earn the right to trust me. Thats right trust has to be earned both ways with me. If you have earned my trust you probably have also earned the right to trust me too but not always.
There are people that trust me at their peril wheras others are close enough to me for me to not discount them for my own gains. The weirdness comes when I sit and look at where this trust is assigned. There are people I haven't physically met where there is mutual trust for example. Verry odd.
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HelenMD Moderator
Posts: 140
(5/14/03 4:36 pm) Reply
Re: trust
I have to say that I am extremely trustworthy though (if I like you). This is surprising considering that I trust practically no one. I'm very loyal.
Dani Registered User
Posts: 90
(5/18/03 9:33 pm) Reply
Re: trust
A Perfect Moment For A Quote From Eminem....
"What Are Friends? Friends Are People That You Think Are Your Friends, But They're Really Your Enemys With Secret Identities And Disguises To Hide Their True Colours, And Just When You Think Your Close Enough To Be Brothers, They'll Come Back And Cut Your Throat When You Aint Looking"
A Lot Of My Friends Have Turned Their Backs On Me, Because Of Rumours That Started, Instead Of Questioning Me About The Allegations, They Just Believed The First Thing They Heard...My Problem Is I Am A Bit Too Friendly For My Own Good, I Should Seriously Work People Out A Bit Better, I Have 2 Good Friends, Whom I Have Known For Years, And We Have Been Through Good Times And Bad Times Together, They Are The Only Two People I Trust (Besides Family Members)
ha shaitan Registered User
Posts: 35
(8/10/03 5:19 pm) Reply
Re: Trust?
i'm lacking in trust right now too. having split up with my girlfriend of almost 4 years just over a month ago, one of my "friends" has started going out with her. what a c**t! The woman I asked to marry me and one of my "friends"...
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