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(5/28/03 8:21 pm) Reply
Pure love, the most stong of the loves - What is?
The other day I was speaking with a 16 years old girl about all kind of stuff, when we reached a hard theme: homosexuality. I'm an adult (or almos I'm supposed to be), and I find the theme a bit hard to a so young girl, when we must admit, that age is the age of messed up things. We spoke about straight love, woman-woman and also man-man love and sexuality. I must admit I was gladly surprised how clear that girl has those things. But that's not the fact.
The fact is actually we became to a kind of an agreement on one stuff: man-man love IS the most pure love existing. The most strong of all loves. Because is bad seeing, because they must fight for it, and most of all, because it hurts. So in a man-man relationship they must love each other so a lot to be hurted by the other.
What do you think?
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Re: Pure love, the most stong of the loves - What is?
I really don't mind man-man, or woman-woman love.
It can be very pretty. I have a friend, and he's gay. And he's really so sweet, most gay guys are sweeter then normal guys. But he's really happy.
Love is love, it doesn't matter that you love the same sex or the other. Love will be always pretty.
-Well, woman-woman must be pure love too, then, don't you think? But I agree, I think the purest love is the one which hurts you most, as same as the most difficult to keep up with.
Re: - I think the love that involves the person of the same sex is really beautiful becouse of what you say Saura , they have to fight more for that love becouse of the society and that they have more obstacles to defeat , I thinks just for that they deserve more credit .
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(5/29/03 6:34 pm) Reply
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I don't deny that woman-woman love is pure.
I think my love for my bf is also pure and strong!
but though it sounds like... I don't know... man-man sexuality hurts a lot (or I think it does, right?). And all the preparation they need to do it... sometimes it must be even disgusting, even for them. Is not the same in a woman-woman relationship. They got more pleasure than pain... I mean... woman-woman sexuality simply don't hurt. Does it?
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I see where you're coming from now, but I can honestly say I have no idea as I've never been in a female/female relationship (or a male/male relationship for that matter )
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(5/29/03 7:01 pm) Reply
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In spain we kiss on both cheeks to say hello.
And we have two different words for kissing on lips: short kiss (just lips-on-lips) is called a "pico" and don't need to mean a thing. Using the tongue on your kiss (deep-kiss) is called "morreo" (which is a "dirty" word, lol) like wet-kiss I think you english people call it...
My kiss with that girl was a dare.... it was a tongue-kiss. Deep and long...
We won the dare, obviously.
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Imaginative MOD
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(5/30/03 8:27 pm) Reply
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HEY YOU MIEKE! don't be patting people like that *touches ass*
I have the perfect answer? really? do I?. Why?
Ok, ok... I'm not an innocent angel, right?. I've tried my things. Not that I went far with none of them, but as I have try to smoke... maria??? (is called like that?)... just to be able to say I don't like it, I also have had my "tryings" in sex.... That sounded really dirty actually.... but is not! Promise!
With that girl, we were on a party, with some friends (boys) and we were speaking about gays and that. One of the boys said it was disgusting kissing another man, and the other girl, started saying that kissing one of the same sex is exactly the same that kissing anyone from the other (I'm messing up your minds, or not still?).... the fact was that I said I didn't know coz the far I had gone till that moment were just short kisses on lips to friends. And she told me to believe or try. The guys dare us we weren't able to do it, to use tongues and that.
I simply HATE being challenged. Is something that is bigger than me. So we did. And I can promise you that not even the most wet of the kisses means a difference. The difference is if you LOVE or not the other person. Not what his/her sex is.
Have I made any sense at all? Is again the correct answer, you little buggers?
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(5/30/03 8:29 pm) Reply
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Quote: Saura you perv ,you love it , don't you? you can say it . I wish I could kiss a girl on the lips , but I'm working on it .
LOL! I'm not a perv, you!.
Is not that I liked it. But it was not disgusting either. simply IT WAS. Nothing farther.
Like when you kiss a man that you don't really like at the end, do I make sense?... or I try in spanish (hehehehe)
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